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Is There Really a Value in "Thinking Positively"?

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Is there really a value in "thinking positively"?

 
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[Lt. Col. Jeffrey Yarvis] When somebody uses a form of biofeedback like a Post-it note, it could be as simple as a little sticky dot that has no writing on it to maybe a stone that says soothing on it or a word— you can have words that you use. When I do hypnosis, I actually will write down positive words that they say. When they say I want to feel something, I will say, I'm going to write that down. And they can actually carry index cards with those words in their cargo pocket. Say they're sitting in a boring meeting, they can be flipping through those cards. You can tell your spouse to say those words to you or your lover to share those words with you. And a lot of these things are about ratios. Often times we focus on our misery and not the positive things going on. So that's part of the mindfulness— part of like in acceptance and commitment therapy, which is a form of cognitive behavioral therapy where being present for yourself and increasing the ratios of these affirmations versus the other times. So for the one time you got angry, you tell yourself you're doing well a hundred times. And I learned this from doing marriage counseling. People will focus on, "He never says he loves me." And she might say—he might say, "I say it hundred times a day." So why is it you only hear the one bad thing he says and not the hundred I love you's. So you go out of your way and say, "Well then kick it up to 200 because some of that's going to get in there." And part of these biofeedback mechanisms is increasing the opportunity to see these things in your environment. So you're having more opportunities. You don't have to rely on your therapist to say it to you or your spouse to say it to you, you have this stone that you can rub on to sooth yourself and also see those words. You can see them when you write. You can go back through these journals that you might keep and see that you were doing well on a particular day. And then we're going to dismiss some of the aversive stuff. Maybe we'll tear that page out of the journal, or we won't focus on those negative responses as much, which leads to that downward spiral into anxiety or depression.

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Lt. Col. Jeffrey Yarvis, PhDLt. Col. Jeffrey Yarvis, PhD is the first integrated service chief of the Fort Belvoir Community Hospital. He is an assistant professor of Family Medicine and director of Social Work at the Uniformed Services University of the Health Sciences.


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My husband (the tbi recipient) is not in the military, nor do we live in your country: but I was being particularly challenged by his mood disorder today and your suggestions added a little bit of understanding and a few strategies I will try giving me a ray of sunshine to hold onto at a time when I really needed it.   Thank you.

Jan 23rd, 2014 7:42pm

 


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